Dana Shepard (Treister)
I just came across the email I sent TEN YEARS AGO to the classmates who coordinated our FORTIETH reunion, and decided to share it again: >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
To the 2004 40th SHHS ‘64 Reunion Committee, to the "LOMOND SCHOOL Gang", and to all the rest of our classmates who were able to attend last weekend's reunion ~~~
Before the memories fade, I wanted to share my reflections on last weekend -- in a nutshell, "Thanks For The MEMORIES"! Perhaps because I have lived in Chicago since 1967 (except for 2 years in the Philippines), perhaps because I am an only child, perhaps because my mother died 4 years ago (at the age of 90), or perhaps just because I'm nostalgic by nature, and getting older every day (!), but I LOVED reconnecting with so many of MY exact-contemporaries from MY past. Some of you were my friends in high school, some at Woodbury, some at Silvers Temple, some at Camp Wise, and a significant number from Lomond School kindergarten. Most of you I hadn't seen for 40 years; even more significantly, with many I hadn't really "connected" for more like 50 years, if we were childhood playmates but not high school buddies. And it was SO special to be able to relate to you over the weekend as "grown-ups", with a closely-shared beginning, but very different life paths.
I have not spent more than 5 minutes in a high-noise-level bar for many decades (other than, perhaps, to listen to my son, Nathaniel, play guitar with other under-age buddies in Chicago during their high school days, still probably a decade ago...), but I happily stayed at Club Capers for at least 3 hours Friday evening! I really like to "sleep in" when I'm on vacation, but I never considered missing Neil Glazer's high school tour Saturday morning! I love to dance, but never bugged my husband even once to get out on the dance floor, because I really wanted to TALK to all of you! And, for the same reason, I never quite made it to the dessert table, which I understand was yummy... I was exhausted by the time we got back to the Hilton Saturday night, but sat up until my eyes wouldn't stay open, compulsively TRYING to get through that voluminous Memory Book!
Thanks to the Committee for having arranged THREE events for us -- seeing all of you only Saturday evening would have been totally overwhelming -- having been able to connect with some Friday evening and some Saturday morning helped a lot. I thought the buffets Saturday night were super, too -- both the variety and the brilliant set-up, assuring no waiting to eat. The Memory Book is most impressive -- SO interesting to read who our classmates have become, proof-positive of the value of our education, and the foundation we had to pursue so many different avenues to personal success.
Neil's tour was super -- I, for one, had not been in the school since 1964. I was amused that truly the ONLY space that gave me a "Remembrance of Things Past" moment was the Dance Studio (where I once "performed" my own choreography to "March of the King's Children" from The King and I), since I was really NOT a dancer then, but AM now. Thanks to whoever suggested going around the Small Auditorium introducing ourselves, too.
This was SO different than I remember the 10th (the only other reunion I was able to attend) -- my recollection is that the turn-out Thanksgiving-Saturday '74 was much smaller, there was only one event, and we were all still so unsure of who we were, who we were going to be ...
I also want to thank my husband, Michael Treister (US '61), who was with me Friday and Saturday nights, joining into the conversations, reconnecting with some people he knew, too (especially Evie from Temple and Lew from Dysart Road -- GREAT stories, guys), being my personal paparazzi, armed with his brand-new digital camera, and helping me process and digest the whole weekend afterwards!
I hope that some of us will be able to stay in touch, at least via e-mail. Michael and I get an e-mailed "thought for the week" from a Nevisian (St. Kitts and Nevis) friend of ours. This week's just arrived: "Most of us spend our lives as if we have another one in the bank"
Apropos, no?!
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And I'm sure the 50th will be all that and more...
DANA
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