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01/03/21 03:44 PM #977    

James Reese

Marty, you're not invisible and have been missed by all of us. We must have been sleeping!

01/04/21 11:03 AM #978    

 

Robert A Davis

Welcome Marty and Hello Jim ,  Happy Healthy New Year to you your families and the class of '64 Family.

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01/04/21 11:41 AM #979    

Cheryl Kushner (Lane)

 

Marty, I always felt like we were close friends at Moreland. I am so glad you are well!  We live in Nashville, TN.

 


01/04/21 04:20 PM #980    

James Reese

Bob, I always enjoy hearing from old friends, chronologically and otherwise. I follow all the posts to keep up with everyone in our class. We really have an impressive class confirmed by all the stories I've read.
Jim (561) 400-4611

01/06/21 12:29 AM #981    

 

Dana Shepard (Treister)

Marty~

What I discovered to my surprise at our SHHS64 50th + 55th reunions is how MANY of us felt more-or-less invisible in high school.  MANY of us felt like the only one who just didn't fit in. I think it is the nature of adolescence!  The important thing is - we survived the experience and seem to have somehow managed to carve out amazing lives for ourselves. G-d willing if we are all still around in 2024, let's celebrate US at our ... 60th reunion~


01/06/21 06:44 AM #982    

Jan Whittemore (White)

I spent the last twelve years of a very checkered career teaching high school in England (where I live with my British husband).  My one aim was to make adolescence for them less painful than mine was!!  And I loved teaching high school; you felt you were making a difference.  Hang in, everyone--keep the faith (whichever it is)--and stay safe!  Happy Much Better New Year & Cheers!


01/07/21 08:59 AM #983    

 

Betsy Dennis (Frank)

Jan, where in England do you live? I have a cousin in Manchester. Betsy


01/08/21 08:28 AM #984    

Jan Whittemore (White)

Betsy, we live in Haywards Heath, halfway between London and Brighton--a world away from Manchester, but if you come over to see them, we are a good stasging post for Gatwick, in particular.  It is fascinating to watch the politic parallels between UK and US!  Cheers.


01/08/21 09:34 AM #985    

 

Betsy Dennis (Frank)

Thanks Jan. Not sure when we will get to England again, but nice to know. Be well! Betsy


01/08/21 09:36 AM #986    

 

Betsy Dennis (Frank)

Good morning all, What I find interesting is how many of us felt out of place in high school. I never was popular. I had just a few friends. Yet, we all turned out OK. This is a powerful lesson in growing up. Be well all. Betsy


01/09/21 01:47 PM #987    

 

Dana Shepard (Treister)

To "Jimmy Reese" -- as I remember you from our Lomond days:

I've morphed this conversation from the "In Memory" page to the "Message Forum".

RE your question about the photo below>>>

Ha ha, of course I have all the names!  And what does it say about ME that I can name many of us without looking at the names?  Something about at our age having diminished short-term memory but... ?!

I will attampt to attach Side B of the 1st grade class photo.  Note the sloppy writing is mine, from maybe high school?  The very neat precise printing was my mother's - and she has been gone 21 yrs.  The missing names neither she nor I remembered.

DANA

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

(Question from JAMES REESE: Great picture, but too many I can't remember their names. A few I just can't recognize, but I guess you've got the names of everyone.)
 

LEE HANDEL was in my first grade class at Lomond School.  He is top row far right, I am bottom row far left.

While my relationship with Lee was mainly way back in our Lomond School days, I do have fond memories of a very kind gentle boy, and was saddened by the news of his death.

DANA


01/10/21 12:45 PM #988    

Gary D Hermann

Great picture.  Though my signature is not on it, I do see that my picture is the top row third from the left.   Thanks for sharing.


01/10/21 08:17 PM #989    

 

Dana Shepard (Treister)

Gary - your name IS on the top row, 3rd from left - in my mother's very precise handwriting! 

(None of the "signatures" were made by the first graders - the messy handwriting was mine, from maybe 6th or 7th grade and the neat printing was my mom's.)

;     )

DANA


01/11/21 02:31 PM #990    

Gary D Hermann

I guess I didn't look very carefully.    I do remember some of the others on the photograph who weren't mentioned, like Bobby Kidd, who lived three doors down from me.    When I was in first grade, he was much bigger than I was and used to terrorize me (and beat me up) on the way to Lomond School.  That changed when my normally mild-mannered and otherwise dimunitive mother (who had grown up a tomboy) showed me how to respond to the bullying and bloody Bobby's nose by driving the heel of my hand straight up under his nose.   To my surprise, I succeeded and, as my mother predicted, Bobby stopped being a bully and, in fact, became my best friend for many years and actually turned out to be a nice guy (maybe the experience changed him too).  That was one thing about Lomond school:  When you spent all that time on the playground, as I did, you came across bullies and received your share of hard knocks from people.  Some would say that Lomond School made many of us streetwise and taught us how to handle bullies. 


01/11/21 03:27 PM #991    

Joseph G Blake

I hesitate to tell this story. My family lived in Shaker for 61 years - I should say my mother who was there as young bride and then did all three phases in Shaker. Young married in a two family, then raised a family and lived in a house they built in 1930 in Fernway and finally the widow phase on upper Van Aken. 

I started at Fernway and then for the best of intentions I was sent elsehwere and loathed it for years. Then came back to Shaker when my parents realized what a mistake they had made. My time at Shaker High were like a dream. I felt fully accepted and very happy, I wish t had been longer. 

I am so pleased to have reconnected with many of you at our reunions at 40, 50 and 55 years and even to bore you with every detail about the developement of Shaker Heights. But I never could have written that but for the time I spent with Mr Burnett who taught me how to write a simple sentence. 

But I also recall what it was like not to fit in and I am afraid sometimes teenagers can be the Lord of the Flies, especially males but that is a topic for another time. 

I regard my time at Shaker, some professors in college and the Marines in Vietnam as formative to who I am. 

One of my nieces once said of me and my siblings, "You can take them out of Shaker but you cannot take the Shaker out of them." 

 

 


01/12/21 08:47 AM #992    

 

Betsy Dennis (Frank)

Once again Mr. Burnett shows up. He also really honed in my writing skills. As one who has published professionally, I can't thank him enough. The power of a good teacher!


01/12/21 12:22 PM #993    

 

Alaina Weisman (Zachary)

A Burnett stand out for me was the sign he kept in onr of his desk drawers: KEEP COOL AND DON'T PANIC. Anyone else remember that he would take this out before exams?


01/12/21 03:34 PM #994    

Gary D Hermann

I may have already said this, but Mr. Burnett was one of two teachers my senior year who set the stage for an immature high schooler with minimum confidence in his intellectual abilities (me) to do well in college and later in law school.  When my senior year at Shaker started, our family was temporarily living near Shaker Square and I recall waiting for the Rapid Transit on the way to school, and telling my sister how I had been assigned to this English teacher named Mr. Burnett who I heard was impossibly difficult and not very nice (and who I not yet met because he had missed the first few days of school because his father died).  I then noticed that there was a man standing next to us who gave me a strange look when he heard me saying all these things.   I assumed it was because I was smoking a cigarette and/or because I was wearing a leather jacket and unkempt, and generally looked like a hoodlum.  As it happened, I had been standing next to Mr. Burnett, who later gave me a hard time that first day in his class. I was clearly one of his least accomplished students (the class was mostly high achievers, most of whom were National Merit Finalists and Semi Finalists (the few of us who were not called ourselves "the dumb kids"). For some reason, and despite the bad start (or maybe because of it), Mr. Burnett took an interest in me, probably viewing me as a project.  In any case, to my shock, I ended up doing well in his class, spent quite a few evenings and afternoons after school at his apartment reading poetry (which, at the time, I thought was stupid--and even told him so).  Ultimately, we developed a long-lasting friendship.  When I was in the Army and temporarily stationed at Fort Benjamin Harrison in Indiana in 1971, I visited him at his home in Boswell and saw how many letters he had received from a large cross section of Shaker students of all kinds who obviously revered him--not all of whom were top students.  High school was not much fun for me,  but Mr.  Burnet was one of the exceptions.  A wonderful man.

Of course, as a parent, I could not help myself and drove our children crazy when I would occasionally review some of their papers and then tried to have them conform with the rules Mr. Burnett (and Strunk and White) had taught me.   Years later, our kids realized how important it was to be a good writer and all indicated their appreciation for helping them move towards acquiring the right writing skills.  I would always tell them how I was just passing on what I had learned from Mr. Burnett.   When I later spent years mentoring an inner city high schooler (who never knew his father and had a mother who was a crack-head), I realized early on that the Cleveland schools absolutely failed to teach basic writing skills, and then made the young man understand how important it was for him to become a competent writer and then pushed him to acquire those skills.  Of course, this included familiarizing him with some of the rules I had learned.   Eventually, he not only graduated from college but was accepted into a Phd program.   In short, his legacy has gone way beyond his students. 

 

 


01/12/21 04:00 PM #995    

 

Dana Shepard (Treister)

To Gary Herman regarding our first grade picture:

I am assuming Bobby Kidd must be the "kid" between Judy Bachman and me in the front row, inasmuch as I think that is the only unidentified boy?  Amazing how that memory of The Class Bully has stayed with you ever since...  Can you provide any of the missing girls' names?


01/12/21 04:06 PM #996    

Holly Spector (Rundberg)

Thanks for posting the class picture. I have mine also, and when I can will look for it and possibly fill in some names.

Holly Spector Rundberg


01/12/21 04:15 PM #997    

 

Dana Shepard (Treister)

OOPs! Of course I MEANT to type " between Judy GERBER and me"... Sorry, Judi Bachman!


01/13/21 09:21 AM #998    

 

Betsy Dennis (Frank)

Gary, My undergraduate and graduate program nursing students have been a legacy to Mr. Burnett as well. I think we often forgot the power of a good teacher. How fortunate we all were to have had him. I still remember some of the assignments we had. 

 


01/13/21 09:37 AM #999    

Dick Margulis (Margulis)

Another fan of Mr. Burnett here. I've mentioned him and his methods many times in professional editing contexts. He taught me to write, as with many others, and that ability has stood me in good stead ever since.


01/13/21 11:43 AM #1000    

Joseph G Blake

Let me add, I had Mr Burnett for two years. So he shaped me. I recall he had a list on a chalkboard which listed names of students who were late on an assignment under the heading of pariahs. It was usually male athletes  whose names I will now pledge to forget.

In re writing, years ago I had JP Morgan &Co. as a client. The subject .of the Van Sweringens came up in a conversation with a senior executive aound 1995. I gave him my senior thesis about them to read. He sent me a letter to say how well I wrote. I wanted to share the letter with Mr Burnett only to determine he had died some years before. But wherever he may be now  I am sure he knows and there are no pariahs.

Another great English teacher was Burton Randall who died in the last few years. I never had him but I saw a beautiful trinute that Willy Karl wrote about him. Again, another great one. I suppose the best to say thanks now is to give to the Shaker Schools Foundation to which  I make a donation every year in memory of Buddy Greiner, my best friend at Shaker and a few others who graduated in other years. 


01/13/21 12:04 PM #1001    

Gary D Hermann

Dana:

You are correct.  Bobby Kidd is the one between you and Judy.   I remember him well because we lived so close to each other and saw each other frequently. 

I'm not sure about the unnamed girls. 


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